SECRETLY

I am secretly attracted to all of my guy friends. I couldn't spend so much time with them otherwise. So--if I feel that way, how is it that they can spend so much time with me and NOT be attracted to me at all? I'm not trying to be vain, but they so easily separate me from any romantic interest, when I'm constantly battling in my mind over my raging hormones. There is probably some underlying problem that I have. That I can't really be "just friends" with guys and hang out all the time. But they can it seems. What is the secret? And what is it about me that so quickly puts me in the friend zone? I wouldn't mind a little coaching in using my feminine power, but then again I can't see myself being anything but me anyway. I like the way I am, I just wish awesome sexy ambitious high morale men did too.